Possessed.

In the movie Beyond the Rocks, which I watched tonight, there is a scene when Hector, after Theodora tells him they can't see each other anymore, and to go away, is away and has a newspaper in hand as he sits on the chair to read it. And the dog under the desk, wakes up, stretches and approaches him and even puts out his paw and then starts away, when "Hector" grabs the dog's collar and pulls him firmly to him and with his other hand, reaches under his chin to hold his face in place and starts petting it --- and I melt ... and I replayed it over and over again thinking there would be no way to resist him. The way he reached for and firmly took the dog into his possession made me think how he could do this with people. How he could take people into his possession and unlike other men who if tried, it would be all wrong and so gross and so awful many would claw like a cat to get away, with Rudy many would easily become submissive (like moi). And so far I have not been able to find out why with Rudy it's ok and with other men it's the worse thought in the world!
Peace and love to all xxo